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How to Avoid Unnecessary Pressure in Life

AVOIDING UNNECESSARY PRESSURE
As humans it is in our nature to want to live, eat, dress, walk and generally act like others without even giving it a second thought. Some of us want to look expensive, live large and wear expensive clothes without earning enough to finance such lifestyle and in the end we find ourselves in financial mess. Some of spend beyond or above what we earn as salary.

It is on this note am sharing with us some steps to take in order to avoid unnecessary pressure we cause ourselves. However, this points were copied from a WhatsApp group I belong to and was shared by an ananimous person. I am sharing this cause it's worth sharing. Let's read and learn.

1. Put your kids in  
    schools you can afford 
    because expensive 
    schools don't  
    guarantee good 
    results. Just ensure 
    they attend a good 
    affordable school.

2. Rent apartments you 
    can pay for
    conveniently. Don’t live 
    in a house you struggle 
    to pay yearly.

3. Let’s plan our lives and 
    live within our means. 
    Save more and spend 
    less.

4. Some women buy food 
    for their children every 
    morning before going 
    to school or even for 
    the whole family, do 
    you know it’s cheaper 
    to cook at home?

5. Some people don’t 
    earn much, but have 
    DSTV at home, go for 
    GOTV and upgrade 
    when your income 
    upgrades. It’s still the 
    same CNN anyway!

6. Eat healthy meals and 
    protect your family 
    from mosquitoes to 
    avoid going to the 
    hospital always.

7. Take advantage of 
    food and fruits in 
    season, its cheaper 
    and you can be 
    creative to create 
    amazing meals.

8. Don’t copy your 
     neighbor’s lifestyle, 
     she earns well and her 
     husband is a ‘big 
     man’.

9. Don’t follow trends, 
       wear clean well-
       ironed clothes and 
       keep your hair neat. 
       You would still look 
       good.
10. Keep your circle 
       small, keep only 
       friends that have 
       senses!

11. Above all things, have 
      the fear of God, have 
      integrity, don’t be lazy 
      and be prayerful.

12. Planning is the key, if 
       you fail to plan, you 
       plan to FAIL.

13. Don't do more than 
      your budget this  
      time, there is no 
      award given to best 
      family that wore an 
      expensive cloth for 
      the year.

14.Don't be in 
     competition with 
     anyone.
     The purpose of shoes 
     and clothes are to 
     make us smart and 
     good.

 From an Ananimous Source.

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