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8 THINGS WE NEED TO UNDERSTAND ABOUT OUR RELATIONSHIP A lot of us are in a relationship yet we cannot even explain if it is going as we ever pictured it to be. Sometimes we are even left confused. Below are eight things we need to understand about our relationships: 1. Mature love is energizing, while immature love is exhausting. 2. You don't make someone love you by giving them more of the things they do not appreciate already. 3. You can be everything you need if you have patience, focus on yourself and understand your emotions. Do not rush into anything in order for you to have everything. 4. Stop looking for the right person and focus on becoming on becoming the right person. 5. You won't have a healthy relationship with yourself. 6. If someone likes you, you will know. And if they don not you will be confused. 7. Your first priority has to be you. If you can not find happiness alone you will struggle to find it with someone else. 8. Until you value depth and st

HOW TO KNOW IF A MAN DOESN'T LOVE YOU If a man doesn't love you, it is very easy to find out because men don't fake their love for a woman. If a man does all these things I am about to tell you right now, it means he does not love you. √ Thee only time he has to reach out to you is at late nights. √ He seems very confused about what you really mean to him or he feels about you. He is always fluctuating and unstable about you. √ He apologizes without a change in his behavior. √ He gives more attention and energy towards other women on Facebook, Instagram, Twitter and other social networking sites but fails in finding time for you. √ He hides you on social media. He does not want other people to find out you guys are dating, although some of don't like making our love life and relationships public most especially on social media. √ He is saying I love you but on the other hand he is treating you like a garbage. A relationship with a good vibe and energy is alw

Relationship between lovers be it husband and wife, boyfriend/girlfriend as we all know is like a partnership where we support each other, financially, emotionally, psychologically, we advice them, give them a listening ear etc. Sometimes we even go beyond the limit and out of our way to do the impossible for our partner. However, I am here to share the story of a lady who goes by the name IYABO on a popular micro blogging site (Twitter) who twitted that she told her boyfriend to make money and after making money he refused to continue the relationship." In her words: "I told my boyfriend that I can't date a broke guy. So he fixed his brokenness. Now that I'm trying to go back to him, he told me he can't date a girl who is not a virgin." "How do I fix that? Help a sister." Going by IYABO's statement, she left her boyfriend because he wasn't financially buoyant, after she advised him to make money. He took her advised worked hard and became r

There is no doubt that Men are going through a lot of difficulties and stress in their day-to-day life most especially in Africa in order to cater for their families. In this part of the world, men are responsible in fending, feeding, clothing and taking care of the family. Sometimes both financially and emotionally. One of my friends use to say that, as a male child as soon as you come out of your mother's womb into the world your struggle has began most especially in Nigeria. As a man you are expected to provide shelter, food, clothes, school fee, etc for your immediate family members and even relatives. However, despite all these responsibilities and difficulties most men go through to cater for their family's need they are not appreciated or encouraged by their wives, families etc. Today, a Facebook user in the name of Rukkayah Abubakar Habib  has taken to her Facebook to appreciate men for what they have been going through silent through a post. Rukayyah Abubakar Habib She

I was scrolling through my phone in order to catch-up with the latest posts and happenings on one of my social networking handles, then I came across a caption saying: "Behind Every Successful Man there is a Woman Because Women don't Stay with Unsuccessful Men". I am in support of this statement that women only go for successful men in the society this days. Nowadays, women are not ready to make sacrifices by staying with a man that has nothing until he gets to the top. They only have taste and eyes for ready made men and boys who drives flashy cars and are living in mansions. Most of them don't even care to find out those men's source of wealth and how they became successful. And as soon as the ready made man starts experiencing financial challenges they would abandon him for another man. Women, for your information 99% of us (men) respect women and girls who stocked with us through thick and thin when we had nothing until we made it to the top together. We treat

How True is it that Women Don't Stay with Unsuccessfull Men? I was scrolling through my phone in order to catch-up with the latest posts and happenings on one of my social networking handles, then I came across a post saying: "Behind Every Successful Man there is a Woman Because Women don't Stay with Unsuccessful Men". I am in support of this statement that women only go for successful men in the society this day. Nowadays, women are not ready to make sacrifices by staying with a man that has nothing until he gets to the top. They only have taste and eyes for ready made men and boys who drives flashy cars and are living in mansion. Most of them don't even care to find out those men's source of wealth and how they became successful. And as soon as the ready made man starts experiencing financial challenges they would abandon him for another man. Women, for your information 99% of us (men) respect women and girls who stocked with us through thick and

HOW TO BE A GOOD WIFE Before marriage the dream of every man is to have a good wife, and every woman wants to be that good wife that every man want. That is why a bride is admonished to be a good wife to her husband before leaving her parents house. However, most women want to be good wives, but their actions is the opposite. It is in the light of this that we've come up with some qualities to work on. 1. Nagging: If you talk and complain a lot you are driving your husband away from yourself. Talk to him diplomatically. If you complain a lot he would even stop coming home early and you are pushing him away to other women out there. 2. Your Home Should be Well Kept & Organized: Keep your home neat, clean and well organized. Nobody would want to come back to a messy room. Household chores is not easy but you have to. If you do this constantly, you would be missed as soon as you are not home for a while. 3. Be Unpredictable: Being unpredictable makes your relationship spicy and mo

A long distance relationship is the type of relationship is practiced by  couples or partners who are geographically separated from each other. There is the absence or challenges of face-to-face communication or physical contact as a result of distance. This kind of relationship is common among students, military personnel, workers who are on transfer, mission etc. A long distance relationship is very difficult and stressful to maintain as a result of the distance therein. However, here are some few ways to make it work: HOW TO MAKE A LONG DISTANCE RELATIONSHIP WORK TRUST : it's the feeling of strong reliance on someone's character, abilities/capabilities, strength, honesty etc by someone on another person, something or somebody. Do you know that you can learn and also make money on Alison? Trust is one of the most  important aspect of any relationship be it a long distance relationship or not. Whenever this is missing or you are doubting your