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Dear Men: May God Bless You With Long Life and Courage to Go Through Each Day

There is no doubt that Men are going through a lot of difficulties and stress in their day-to-day life most especially in Africa in order to cater for their families. In this part of the world, men are responsible in fending, feeding, clothing and taking care of the family. Sometimes both financially and emotionally.

One of my friends use to say that, as a male child as soon as you come out of your mother's womb into the world your struggle has began most especially in Nigeria. As a man you are expected to provide shelter, food, clothes, school fee, etc for your immediate family members and even relatives. However, despite all these responsibilities and difficulties most men go through to cater for their family's need they are not appreciated or encouraged by their wives, families etc.

Today, a Facebook user in the name ofRukkayah Abubakar Habib has taken to her Facebook to appreciate men for what they have been going through silent through a post.


Rukayyah Abubakar Habib

She said: "DEAR MEN",

"Sometimes I wonder where you draw your strength from. You stay months without buying clothes for yourself because you want to put food on the table. You stay hungry so that your family can eat and survive."

"Sometimes you leave home with no direction but you will still be able to come back home with money. I know how you have denied yourself basic education so that your kids can have it. Your parents look up to you for survival whether you have a job or not. You just have to provide."

"You pay huge bride price to marry the woman you love, you end up taking care of her family, her siblings and even your very own."

"You have to fight tirelessly for your mother, wife and kids."

"DEAR MEN, may God bless you with long life and courage to go through each day."

"May God continue to bless y'all, I hope one day your hardworking will Pay off, never give up, better days are coming."

See screen shot below:

What this lady said is nothing but the truth but only just few women understand it.

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